When you hear the saying, “just do it,” what comes to
your mind? Is it a Nike commercial? A friend telling you to do something you are
afraid to do? What about a slogan for an
election campaign? What message do we
see in the three simple words, just do it. It is commanding, authoritative and
pressuring. A pressure to take charge
and be the best.
Our families have a lot to do with the values, morals
and feelings we hold on issues and topics. It is not until a young man leaves home that
they can be a separate entity from their family. They can fully test external factors and
decide on their own what values they want to uphold. Joining a club or organization is a way for
men to explore who they are. This could
be joining a sport, a fraternity or a service based organization. For some men, this is running for student
government. Student government is an
entity that works with administration, faculty and the students to better the
campus community. What a great way to
obtain power! Power is a masculine
portrayed quality (Kimmel, 2010). Could
this be why our college student government associations are male dominated? According
to Patricia Vanderbilt (2012), student governments are male-dominated, out
numbering woman by two-thirds. This
mirrors male dominated positions of power in United States government (White
House, 2012). Male students are running
for positions with confidence that they will be elected or appointed, some even
feeling entitled saying that it is a man’s realm (Kimmel, 2008).
So, why are our male students really running and
joining student government? Capraro (2010)
discuss Green’s institutions of adventure. Adventure can be associated with hunting,
sports, fighting, or travel. Any type of
adventure is considered masculine (Capraro, 2010). Taking a look at society today many things in
the media are targeting men to explore and create their own adventures. Movies that appeal as adventurous to men are Indiana Jones, Spiderman or even The
Hangover. It is thrilling going to
Vegas for a weekend with your best friends and living by the motto, “What
happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas.” If
men are not acting on adventure, they are seeking it in other forms. Men like to shop at outdoor adventure stores such
as Cabela’s or Gander Mountain even if they do not use what they buy. Men still thrive off of the thought of going
out into the woods on an adventure. Politics
are also classified as an adventure. Men
are allowed force to assert power and identity by society (Capraro, 2010). Adventure
is daring, thrilling and can create a feeling of adrenaline. Men seek positions in student government so
they can make a difference, change their institutions communities by trying new
things and can be in charge.
At my previous institution, the men did not dominate
student government. This university is a
Catholic institution with 4,100 undergraduates with the majority of students
being white and from out-of-state. The
institution has a female-to-male ratio of 60-to-40. There are sixty-five student government
positions in which men hold only seven of the positions. For the last four years, a female has held the
student body president position. I had
the opportunity to speak with the man who is currently the senior class president. For the purpose of confidentiality I will
call him Ben. Ben, who is a straight, White male, joined student government his
sophomore year by receiving encouragement from fellow male peers on the student
government board who said, “just do it.” Ben was looking for a leadership position on
campus and saw joining as an opportunity to build his identity. Ben stated, “I am able to make a difference.” He enjoys putting on programs for his
classmates and seeing students enjoy them. Ben wants to “make college enjoyable for everyone.”
Ben also likes that not only can student
government affect the campus, but impact the community around them.
I asked Ben if he saw being part of student
government as an adventure. He discussed
how joining was certainly an adventure because he was not sure what to expect. The thought of uncertainly creates the
feeling of adrenaline. He pointed out
that each year is a new adventure. As a group,
they try new things and go into different areas they are not use to. They become focused on different ideas as they
change class years. Currently a senior,
Ben is focusing on large scale programming and planning events such as Senior
Pub Nights and Senior Week. He is also focusing on designing events to help
seniors prepare and get ready for “the real world.” Targeting the men in college to prepare for
the next stage in their life and to navigate out of Guyland is important
(Kimmel, 2008). This requires them to
transition and accept the real world while they are still in emerging
adulthood. This is a very difficult
task.
Ben makes the most out of being the only male on the
Executive Board, which is something that other men struggle with. Ben mentioned it is nice because he has developed
a friendship with everyone and he has the most experience, so others will seek
advice from him. I asked Ben if he felt
powerful holding the top position in student government. Ben said, “I have the power to change things,
but that doesn’t make me feel powerful.” Reflecting on last year when the Executive
Board was half males and half females, Ben said there is not a difference to
the group dynamics and that it depends on how well the student body president
facilitates the discussion. Ben stated,
“It comes down to leadership styles.”
When we look at why Ben joined student government, he
did not see it as a way to gain power but he did see it as a new territory to
explore. He had encouragement from his
parents to be active in the campus community and saw pressure from his friends
to “just do it.” Ben was looking for a
leadership position, a way to develop his identity and to be a part of something
bigger than his self. Colleges need to support and help these men discover who
they are, whether they are the majority or minority of the institution. We need to help them become better people and
to make better decisions. Even if men
are the majority engaging in student government, men still need support. Leadership positions such as student
government are only a small fraction of the men on campus. What about the men in the middle that we
never talk to? How do we engage these
men? How do we help them find who they
are? Sometime we need to ask our
students or even ourselves, “Why just do it?
Why do I want to do this?” Other
times, we need to simply ask, “Why not?”
References
Capraro, R. L. (2010). Why college men drink. In Harper,
S. R. & Harris, F., III (2010). College men and masculinities: Theory,
research, and implications for practice (pp. 239-257). San Francisco, CA:
Jossey-Bass.
Kimmel,
M. (2008). Guyland: The perilous world where boys become men. New York, NY:
Harper.
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Kimmel, M. S. (2010).
Masculinity as homophobia. In Harper,
S. R. & Harris, F., III (2010). College men and masculinities: Theory,
research, and implications for practice (pp. 23-31). San Francisco, CA:
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Vanderbilt, P. (2012). College student
government: Where are the women?. Huffington
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Erin
Murphy is an Academic Support Coordinator in Residence Life at the University
of Maine. Erin received a BA in Social
Work from Sacred Heart University and is a current graduate student at The
University of Maine enrolled in the Student Development in Higher Education Program.
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